
Gender pronouns are words someone would like others to use when talking about or referring to them. They are almost like a replacement in a sentence for your name. The most common pronouns used are “he, him, his” and “she, her, hers”. When someone is transgender or gender nonconforming, they may prefer to use different pronouns, such as “they, them, theirs”. There are many other pronouns someone may choose to use – check the graphic below to see what some of them are.

If you are cisgender, which means your gender identity matches the sex you were assigned at birth (i.e. born a female and gender identity is female), you may have not given much thought to pronouns before. People can typically guess what a cisgender person’s pronouns are by looking at them. Not everybody has this privilege! People who are transgender or gender nonconforming may use pronouns that you wouldn’t guess just by looking at them.
The pronouns a person uses are an important part of their identity. For people who are transgender, the shift in pronouns can be an important part of their transition. So, how can you be supportive? Stating your own gender pronouns and asking for other people’s gender pronouns when you meet them is a great way to communicate that you are supportive of all identities. Once someone tells you their gender pronouns, try your best to remember what they are and use them appropriately.
We are so glad you’re here. Upopolis is your private, secure space to connect with other youth who truly understand what it’s like to navigate healthcare journeys and life challenges.
When you first log in, you will land on your Newsfeed, which shows updates from your friends and the groups you belong to. To get everything feeling like home:
Don’t miss out on the fun! Invites and login details for our events are posted inside specific groups. Be sure to regularly check All Things Upopolis (for youth with a medical diagnosis), Grief Island, or YAP Island, as well as the News and Events page on Upopolis.com.
To explore and join more groups in main Upopolis, click the Group button at the top left of your screen.
Our communities are run by Certified Child Life Specialists: Jessica, Carley, Krista, Abby, Korin, and Vanessa. If you ever feel lost, have a question, or just need to talk, please reach out to any of them using the Message feature.
🎉 Have fun exploring, and welcome to the community!
Discussion (0)
There are no comments for this doc yet.
Comment posting has been disabled on this doc.